Add IP_MTU-based maxmtu estimation.

Linux provides a getsockopt() option, IP_MTU, to get the kernel's best
guess at a connection MTU. In practice, it seems to return the MTU of
the physical interface the socket is using.

This patch uses this option to initialize maxmtu to a better value when
MTU discovery starts.

Unfortunately, this is not supported on Windows. Winsock has options
such as SO_MAX_MSG_SIZE, SO_MAXDG and SO_MAXPATHDG but they seem useless
as they always return absurdly large values (typically, 65507), as
confirmed by http://support.microsoft.com/kb/822061/