Fix event loop io tree inconsistency on Windows.

On Windows, the event loop io tree uses the Windows Event handle to
differentiate between io_t objects. Unfortunately, there is a bug in
the io_add_event() function (introduced in
2f9a1d4ab5ff51b05a5e8cc41a1528fdeb36c723) as it sets the event after
inserting the object into the tree, resulting in objects appearing in
io_tree out of order.

This can lead to crashes on Windows as the event loop is unable to
determine which events fired.