Improve packet source detection.
When no UDP communication has been done yet, tinc establishes a guess
for the UDP address+port of each node. However, when there are multiple nodes
behind a NAT, tinc will guess the exact same address+port combination
for them, because it doesn't know about the NAT mappings yet. So when
receiving a packet, don't trust that guess unless we have confirmed UDP
communication.
This ensures try_harder() is called in such cases. However, this
function was actually very inefficient, trying to verify packets
multiple times for nodes with multiple edges. Only call try_mac() at
most once per node.