Fix UDP/MTU discovery in intermediate SPTPS UDP relays.

Fix UDP/MTU discovery in intermediate SPTPS UDP relays.

Refactoring commit 81578484dc74fd92f1b01f71f882016f120ab1de seems to
have introduced a regression as it moved discovery code away from
send_sptps_data_priv() and within send_packet(). The issue is,
send_packet() is not called when the node is simply relaying an UDP
SPTPS packet: indeed, send_sptps_data_priv() is called directly from
handle_incoming_vpn_data() in that case.

As a result, try_tx_sptps() is not called in the relaying case, which in
practice means that a relay doesn't initiate UDP/MTU discovery with the
next relay (unless some other activity compels it to do so). This can
result in packets getting sent over TCP instead of UDP from the relay.