Try to ensure we build correctly against various libminiupnpc versions.

Unfortunately, libminiupnpc has a somewhat... "peculiar" approach to
backwards compatibility for their API, where they reserve the right to
make breaking changes when they feel like it, forcing users to resort
to #ifdefs to ensure they use the correct API. Sigh.

Previously, tinc would only build against API versions <= 13, because I
was doing my initial development using miniupnpc-1.9.20140610 which is
the version that ships with Debian. The changes in this commit are
required for tinc to build against more recent versions, from
1.9.20150730 to the latest one at the time of this commit, 1.9.20151026.